Navigating Grief

As we approach the 25th anniversary of September 11th, I have been reflecting on the many conversations our team has had with members of our community over the past year. One thing has become abundantly clear: there is no single way to grieve.

Some of you have shared that it feels as though the world has moved on or forgotten, while others have told us they would rather not have people reach out or ask how they're doing. Both feelings, and everything in between, are valid. Grief is deeply personal. It doesn't follow a timeline, nor does it always align with the expectations of society or even those closest to us. Sometimes those differences can create tension within families or friendships, but they do not make your grief any less real.

Anniversary years often bring emotions to the surface in unexpected ways. That is one of the reasons we have expanded our Peer Support Groups and strengthened our case management team with additional training to provide emotional support. We want you to know that whenever you are ready, whether you want someone to listen, to understand, or simply to sit beside you… you do not have to navigate this journey alone.

As our nation pauses to remember the events of September 11th, 2001, we recognize that for many of you, this is not an annual remembrance. For our 9/11 community and our families grieving the loss of loved ones who served in the post-9/11 military, the loss is woven into everyday life. It is present during birthdays, graduations, weddings, holidays, and quiet moments when you instinctively reach for the advice or comfort of someone who should still be here.

We also witness something remarkable. We see so many of you lifting others through shared experience, offering hope, understanding, and compassion in ways only someone who has walked a similar path can. We also see those of you wondering why you're still struggling, questioning whether you should be "further along" by now.

If that is you, I hope you'll remember this: there is no finish line for grief. There is no right or wrong way to carry love and loss. Please give yourself the same grace and compassion that you so readily extend to others.

Whether today is a day you want to connect or a day you simply need space, know that we honor your journey. We are here when you need us in this season, on the anniversary, and every day in between.

Warmly,

Becky Rossman, CEO